Quora精选：如何提升自己的魅力？

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What are the best ways to make yourself more attractive?
有什么最好的方法能使自己更有魅力？


获得5.8k好评的回答@Josh Fechter：


1. Become a happy-go-lucky person.
1.做一个乐天派。
I went to a local San Francisco bar to hang out with one of my best friends. My friend was talking to this girl with a body shaped like an hourglass and long black hair peacocked with a purple stripe.
我和一个最好的朋友相约去旧金山当地的一家酒吧。我朋友和一个女孩聊天，她身姿曼妙，长长的黑发焗着扎眼的紫色条纹。
She was sitting next to a guy who wore baggy clothes and didn’t bother to comb his hair.
她身边坐着一个男孩，穿着宽松的衣服，头发都懒得梳。
As a good friend, I decided to keep this guy’s attention so my best friend could mingle undisturbed with the cute girl. I assumed from the tone of his voice and mannerisms that he was gay. I barely have to put in energy to wingman this scenario. Within a couple of minutes, I noticed I was wrong.
作为好朋友，我决定要吸引这个男孩的注意力，以便让我的好朋友能和那个可爱的女孩好好聊聊不被打扰。我从那个男孩说话的语气和言谈举止猜测他是个同性恋，我毫不费力就能搞定。但几分钟以后我发现我错了。

2. This guy had charmed me.
2.这个男孩把我吸引住了。
He had the widest smile and a happy-go-lucky attitude. He kept complimenting me by telling me great things about my energy and attitude. “Josh, there’s something about you - such positive energy. You’re a great guy to hang out with.” I thanked him over and again. Coming out of my daze, I noticed his hand was on the girl’s leg. I quickly realized two things:
他有最灿烂的微笑，很乐观的态度。他一直称赞我的精力和态度。“Josh，你身上有某种东西——一种正能量，和你在一起真开心。”我一再地感谢他。我现在看明白了，他的手放在那个女孩腿上，我很快弄明白了两件事：
1)He’s not gay
1)他不是同性恋
2)He knows exactly what he’s doing
2）他很清楚自己在做什么
As we talked further, I asked him, “How do you charm people so well?” He responded, “I’m a professional.” Then he whispered in my ear, “I just picked this girl up at a strip club.” He proceeded to explain how he regularly goes out and meets many women and makes countless new friends.
随着我们聊得越来越多，我问他：“你怎么这么有魅力？”他回答说：“我可是专业的。”然后在我耳边小声说：“我刚把这个女孩从脱衣舞俱乐部接出来。”他继续向我解释他平时怎么出去逛，见很多女孩，然后怎么交到无数新朋友的。