Quora精选：身边不成文的社会规则

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What are some unwritten social rules everyone should know?
有什么不成文的社会规则是每个人都该知道的？


获得13k好评的回答@jake Williams：

1.You get invited to a party, you bring booze, enough for yourself as minimum, preferably enough for yourself plus extra.
1.应邀参加聚会你要带酒的话，至少要带够自己的份，最好也能够别人喝。
2.‘How are you?’ Should, in most cases, be answered in three words or fewer.
2.“你好吗？”大多数情况下回答这个问题不要超过三个字。
3.If someone asks “would anyone like the last slice?” that means they want it, and therefore you should refuse.
3.如果有人问“谁想要最后一块？”意思就是他们自己想要，所以你不能要。
4.Owner of the car chooses the music and/or has the right to pick who chooses the music. Owner of the house chooses what setting the thermostat is set at. Etc etc.
4.车主选择音乐并且/或者由车主来决定谁选音乐，房主决定恒温器要放哪儿，等等。
5.“You should come around some time” is not necessarily an invitation.
5.“你有时间过来转转”不一定是邀请。
6.When entering someone else's home, ask if they require you to remove your shoes.
6.去别人家时要问问是否需要脱鞋。
7.Avoid presuming. If someone offers you ‘a drink’, it's not often ‘yeah, I'll have a glass of red’ is an acceptable answer.
7.不要自以为是。如果有人要给你拿饮料，通常最好不要回答“好的，给我来杯红茶。”
8.If someone is telling a story, and it seems everyone is ignoring them, make eye contact and show extra interest.
8.如果有人在讲故事，而且好像没人在意，你可以给个眼神，表示你很感兴趣。